I feel like the old cliché that sometimes less is more could use closer examination right about now. We are a culture that is awash in talk of “abundance”. We are encouraged to aim for more, achieve more, earn more, and we are rarely encouraged to dial it back. During the holidays, the abundance mindset can go haywire, and I’m not just talking about how much we spend on our holiday spreads or how many gifts we buy. I’m talking about how many people we try to see, parties we attend, drinks we have… it’s as if the brakes can just fall right off the train and we wake up in January with everything a bit depleted: our energy levels, our social batteries, our bank accounts.
This month, I want to remind you that, as the old cliché insists, less really is more sometimes. If you’re feeling overwhelmed as so many of us are, let me be the first to insist that the only thing you need “more” of is time to take care of your mental health. Maybe it’s OK to say no sometimes. Maybe we could all use fewer holiday sing-alongs and cookie exchanges and more time in the woods, the peace of the forest being the only Christmas carol that can really lower your blood pressure and save your sanity.
There are so many wonderful things to enjoy at this time of the year, but you must also remember it’s the most stressful time of year, not to mention the darkest and one of the coldest. So while I know you have a lot to take care of, I guarantee you that the best gift you can give anyone close to you is being the best version of you that you can possibly be, and that means taking care of yourself.
Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and remember the words I live by:
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.